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MM's Corner

Sex Magick

Posted by Mother Moon on January 21, 2015 at 2:55 PM

One of the reasons Raven and I decided to have this online conversation is because an acquaintance of ours; a man; had told us about his experience in joining a new age coven.

One of their requirements is that after studies, prior to initiation, he was required to have sex with the high priestess. It didn't matter that he was married. It was just their requirement.


Although there are some covens that have a lot of sexual stuff among their groups, this is not the norm for "regular" magickal groups.


In our circle outside of the online world there are smaller, more specialized sex magick groups. Their membership is comprised of practitioners from all around the world. Some belong to other, "normal" covens and others are solitary but they are all within the same circles.


A circle is comprised of many covens and practitioners that know each other, gather together on special occasions and consult each other regarding magickal situations.


I want to kind of lay out what goes on in a couple of these types of groups and then I want to share with you how we use our own lovers (husbands, wives, boyfriends, etc)to work up the same kind of energy that these groups are gathering during their practices.




First there are a few very old SM covens that practice sex magick, but not with each other. These types of covens can be quite dangerous for the outsider.


They usually hold rites 6 times a year.

They will basically plan a gathering for the day/evening of the rite and invite all kinds of locals. Usually the location in which these gatherings take place is different for every rite and more often than not, they are held in areas where none of the practitioners actually live.

The gatherings take place under some kind of guise so that a large variety of people can be invited.


In the old days these gatherings would usually be a ball or formal of some kind.

In more recent years, they've been more like parties.

I know of one that was actually held as the grand opening for a well-known art gallery and another one that took place as a movie premiere.


Sometimes there will be certain "targets" that are specifically researched and then invited - these people are chosen because of certain attributes that fit well with the the rite that will go on later. Sometimes its a physical attribute. Other times its a status that the person holds or merely the type of person they are.

Other times, if the rite is considered an "emergency" they will just throw a party and pick and choose at random based on what they see in the here and now.


Sometimes these targets are drugged (Alcohol, Viagra and Ecstasy usually), but most of the time, they are willing participants that just like the idea of having an orgy.





MOST of today's SM covens are a circle within themselves. Their sexual partners are within the group.

These members are usually approached and invited based on whatever the group is looking for - again, sometimes this is a physical trait, sometimes a magickal one, sometimes a status, etc.


Though they have been known on occasion to have group sex, for the most part, the partners are put together or chosen based on a certain sexual act that those 2 people excel in OR because they are basically good at everything or will try anything.


Most of the participants are married and have lives outside of the coven and most participants grow to have a very deep, loving bond with their sexual partner.


Their sexual acts are used individually for the energy produced.


Sometimes its a private affair where the couple is alone. Other times its a very public event where the other practitioners are present.

These are the most common SM groups - there are others, but the inner workings are similar to the above.



Now that we have that out of the way.

Each sexual act produces a certain kind of energy. Group sex produces a very power-filled, frenzied energy that is often used in black magick rites.

For this article, we're going to be talking about sex with one other person.

That energy then can be absorbed/gathered by the witch for use right then OR for use later on.


This energy can be used in all kinds of spellwork - though, most witches only use SM for sexual related spellwork, it doesnt always have to be that way.

Ill explain more about the energy later.



For most people, having sex with strangers or sex outside of their marriage/relationship is not something that they would do and for most people, having sex with their husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, etc is what they are most comfortable with and being comfortable and in control is really important when utilizing sex energy for magick.

Its perfectly normal for you to use your partner as a magickal experiment. And trust me, the more often you do it, the better it gets!!



How to distinguish what sexual things produce what kinds of sexual energies...use logic!


Rough, Wild sex produces a more primal energy.

Primal energy is great for bringing about primal actions though sex amulets but also good for recreating motivation, need, completion of goals and even finding oneself.



Foreplay - in amulets, foreplay energy brings about touching, exploring, passion, want, need and even romance - outside of sex magick, foreplay can reproduce exploration of all kinds.



You can use longer sexual acts to bring about longevity in a sex amulet - outside of sex magick, you can use this energy to create an "in it to win it" kind of attitude, determination and motivation.



Multiple orgasms can reproduce the same effects in a sex amulet as well as promote more powerful orgasms for the wearer and/or the couple.



Exploration in sex - new positions, new locations, etc can reproduce the same effects in an amulet. Outside of sex magick, this kind of energy can promote exploration of self, confidence, change and attempting new things.


You get the idea...





OK - so, to use sex energy immediately for an amulet, it must be worn during and after the act. You can wear it or your partner can wear it or, better yet, you wear it one night and have your partner wear it the next so that it absorbs a variety of energies.



If you're not going to empower an amulet during the act but want to use these energies later, then just absorb them, gather them and focus and direct them later on.



An amulet created in this way (wearing it during the act of sex) is often called a "passive" amulet. This basically means that you're not actually doing a ritual but rather, creating magick from the energies that you're producing without a whole lot of magickal work. For a really powerful and diverse amulet, I recommend wearing it through several nights of sexual fun. My best sex amulets have been created over 6 months or more.




Dos and Donts -




Do go into it having some sort of plan BUT not so rigid of a plan that you're not having fun or showing interest in your partner.

If your partner doesn't like surprises, don't be afraid to tell him/her the plan.

Outline your plan according to your norm - in other words, don't plan for 3 hours of sex when you know that your partner is spent in 20 minutes.



Do make sure that both you and your partner are in the mood! There is nothing worse than a sex magick amulet with an unwilling or obligatory energy.



Do shower or bathe before the act so that you're starting off with a clean/balanced energy. Shower/bathe individually or make it fun and do it together.



Do go into it with confidence and do not try or do anything you're not comfortable with. If you want to try something new but have reservations or fear, do it without your amulet or without magickal intentions a couple of times first.

You do not want conflicting energies going into your magick.


If you are creating an amulet and you plan to have a romantic night out beforehand, wear it then as well.



If you're creating an amulet during the act, do focus on it. Wear it in a place where you can look at it - wear it on a bracelet or a long chain so that you can really put some focus into it from time to time.



Do not go into it with a manic attitude. Try to put some real time and effort into whatever you're doing. Do not give your partner oral sex for 38 seconds and call it good. This produces a frazzled, scattered energy.

Im not saying that you have to do something so long that you have lock jaw for a week afterward (LOL) BUT if you're going to do it, do it well.



If things don't work out as planned, don't be afraid to try again. Sometimes trying something new gets us so excited that we can't last very long. This is OK.

You're looking for a repetitive energy anyway so if you have to do it again later or the following day or week, that's fine. Adjust and move on.



Remember that any amulet relating to sex, love and/or relationships is very personal. After its creation process is finished, if you're creating it for someone else or to sell, you shouldn't use it. If you've created something for yourself, don't loan it out or sell it without a thorough cleansing.

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Reply Alana
1:13 PM on June 4, 2015 
This is very interesting and useful information. My husband and I practice SM between ourselves only and have created several on-going amulets that we both use and empower often.
Reply Mother Moon
4:48 PM on June 2, 2015 
It really can produce a frazzled energy. It can also produce a frigid or unwilling energy.
Reply Mellerds
8:10 PM on January 24, 2015 
Do not give your partner oral sex for 38 seconds and call it good. This produces a frazzled, scattered energy.
Reply enapay
1:41 PM on January 22, 2015 
as a practioner of sm i would have to say i agree
Reply Buttercup
1:02 PM on January 22, 2015 
Reply MommaL
7:01 PM on January 21, 2015 
Very interesting!!